Essence.

Find your essence through your self-love, your inner-peace, your truth, your wisdom, your beauty, your joy.

To get to your core essence you’ll need to find some time for yourself, in silence [and silence is good, don’t be scared of it], with no distractions. Now take a deep breath, and bring the thought of who you are to your mind. Try to reach your soul, and focus on your top areas and strengths. Be honest with yourself and do not give up until you get there. Give them a name. Write them down if you wish.
Then talk to your people and gather their opinion about the way they see you. An average -the common denominators- of all what you hear are also a great addition to the image you radiate towards the world. Reflect on it.

Embrace who you are. Give a warm welcome to yourself, to your inner, to your shape, to your feelings, thoughts and beliefs. Make sure you use those strengths you thought of as your potentials, and these will add value to your life.

You just got to your real You.